Quantcast
Channel: alchemist's eyes
Viewing all articles
Browse latest Browse all 260

don't squander joy #2

$
0
0

Skyguy
oh guys, yesterday there was some good stuff.
the kids wanted boiled eggs.
late.
after dinner.
i made some.
we all sat down.
and skyler wanted to peel my egg for me.
after his.
i (focusing on efficiency) said, "we could do it at the same time!"
and he replied, "that's okay.  i like to be a gentlemen."
heart fall to the floor.
stop breathing.
kairos.
and so, i let him peel my egg.
he proudly handed me a yolk at the end (that pesky white attatching to the shell!).
i ate it, happily.
i asked where he got that idea.
hold on people.
my little pony.
the cartoon.
he's been watching it lately (VERY different from his rule of only watcthing "fighting" cartoons).  i think he started because bronwyn had watched it.
whatever.  i was thrilled.
and i had been following a lot of shannon hale's great posts about the ratios of girls/boys in cartoons and how girls will read books with boys as main characters, but boys won't.  
and i can't describe the feeling to have this five year old want to be a gentlemen--instead of blow something up (still plenty of that going on. . .).
you see, i've been a little more sensitive after sandy hook.  when i took stock of our media/toys for our boys, especially skyler.  all fighting stuff.  potential to destroy stuff.  
so, i asked him if he's want any my little pony toys to play with (he love to play with figures).
he said, "sure.  if my friends don't see."

Viewing all articles
Browse latest Browse all 260

Trending Articles